Valentines Day

Valentines Day….a day of joy for some and dread for others.  I am one of the lucky few that have a very wonderful and special lady in my life.  Contrary to what many people think, I am not that easy to live with.  Do not look shocked, those that know me, but its true.  I am difficult, messy, narcissistic just to name the faults  I will admit to.

With all that being said I dedicate this post to the Lovely Lisa who looks past all of that and loves me still.

I must admit she is usually in charge of where we will go for  dinner or what we  will do on a date night.

But….. this year she asked me to make all the arrangements.  So in a usual guy  manner I asked her where she wanted to go and what she would like to do.

Then…. she stated I need to make all the plans and if I really understood her … Love Language? …. I would truly know what she would enjoy.

After she explained what a “Love Language” was I thought crap….. Now what do I do.

With much pondering, soul searching (and google searches) I believe I have found exactly what she will enjoy.  We will spend the afternoon at Victoria’s Secret … wait… that would be my perfect Vanlentines date.  No I have a nice dinner planned at a resturant she has talked about since I first met her and we have yet to go together.

I hope all of you have a great Valentine’s Day and find the perfect one to compliment your life also.

The Greeks call it Eros, from whence we derive the word ‘erotic.’ This is the passionate, physical, sensual, consensual, and hot between the sheets kind of lovin’ adults engage in with each other. Whether sensual and slow, hard and fast, down and dirty, spank it… say my name Eros, we all want some version of it. This is that physical, romantic union we all read about, see in films, fantasize about and hopefully experience in our lives. There’s nothing as sweet as finding a lover with whom you are compatible, not just physically but mentally and spiritually….via Why You Should Indulge Yourself This Valentine’s Day